No matter your age or "time of life", no matter your temperament or personality, pursue friendship with other men that you believe might benefit from your support and vice versa.
Solid, reliable friendships between men is worth the false starts, miscommunication, and disappointments.
Be vigilant in your pursuit, and do not hesitate to be upfront with your intent. It may feel too risky to use the word friendship as your end goal, but take my advice, and let the other man know where you're coming from at the getgo.
Lastly, it's worth it to ask how you might shore up your role as a friend on occasion, listening always for opportunities to better hone your skills on behalf of your buddy. Conversely, if a friendship implodes or false starts, don't fret. Instead, pray for patience and understanding as you stay centered on how Christ modeled friendship for his beloved disciples. Patience, patience, patience.
As a Samson Society man in particular, you might just become like me in that you're always on the lookout for opportunities to expand your platonic portfolio.
It could happen.
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