I believe women are more competitive than men overall. And when I say that, I'm specifically addressing women competing against women relative to their attention / engagement with the opposite sex.
Today, you may be married to a woman and have somewhere around the average 2.5 children. And within that setup, you may also have a relationship with another woman (or women) from the perimeter. That being, your mistress or some semblance therein. This could be a woman from your past (when you were a young man), a woman from the recent past or a woman you just encountered and developed a relationship with. She could be professional, a prostitute, a wife, a mother, a Christian, a pagan, and on and on. Ultimately, you're attracted to her, like very much the attention she's providing and she has breasts and a vagina.
What exactly is a mistress, and where do they / how do they exactly come into play within a guy's life?
We'll attempt to answer this one at the end of this post.
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As a man who's quite open about revealing / discussing his homosexual desires, I find it so interesting to observe females reactions to me myself.
The funniest reaction is when they attempt to "de-gay" me via their physical advances. On numerous occasions, I've had women serendipitously bear hug me for prolonged, awkward moments, pressing their breasts against my chest unremitted with their arms tightly locked around my torso.
It's like experiencing vertical sex with a stranger, and it is creepily awkward (especially when it happens within a church setting).
On other occasions, women react to my transparent gayness by shunning me outright and / or dropping hints as to how steadfast they are in servicing their husband's sexual needs. As if to say, "Back off, you homo. Keep away from my man."
Being the father of three daughters, one of the most sure-fire ways to motivate one of my children is to discreetly pit one against the other. Say for example, one of them has been assigned a project, and a lengthy, time-consuming one at that. And this project has a deadline that's weeks into the future. Once I sense that said daughter's interest is waning in their project, all I have to do to invigorate her focus is recommend that she "subcontract out" the work to one of her sisters for a season, seeing how she's "lost interest".
You talk about watching a pitch fall flat. You would think it had been weighed down by the Earth itself.
Instinctually, women are territorial relative to groundwork that's their own or sites they feel so moved to survey beyond their borders. Hence the expected discord whilst attempting to have them share a room / clothes / a vehicle, or a man.
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And this leads me to husband / fathers and the power / control they wield over females (which will serve as the segue needed to answer the aforementioned question).
Mistresses, by definition, exist solely in response to their puppeteers. That being, the men they serve.
These women are yoked to these men despite their refusing to believe otherwise. In many ways, it's a paradox for them to step into for there's a semblance of control (ground gained) that's shrouded in emotional manipulation for which they have no control over.
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When we moved back from Cleveland in 2013, one of our 10 immediate neighbors had separated and was headed for divorce. We knew this because the husband was no longer living within the abode. Therefore, we did our best to minister to the wife and her daughter despite the shame imbued limitations (cloud of embarrassment and despairing). I remember specifically, after she divulged to us the relationship she'd quickly developed with a new man (thanks to online hookup sites), to steer clear of getting involved sexually with her new stud under any circumstances.
Why would I do this? Sex is so much fun!
You know why.
Even not taking into account what Scripture has to say about fornication and divorcees, women cannot be sexual sans involving their whole hearts / emotional selves. The experience is binding for them whereas for men, sex can simply serve as an exchange of bodily fluids.
This is why you don't see women sneaking around in public parks looking to engage in anonymous hookups under the veil of darkness, or engaging similarly in public restrooms in accordance with their "suitability" for cruising.
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I am convinced that one of the primary drivers young women have towards refuting their gender is rooted in their coming to the realization of just how vulnerable to men they truly are. And not just physically vulnerable but emotionally vulnerable. To the point of potential deep seated manipulation.
Who can blame 'um for wanting out of their biological gender in response to these vulnerabilities?
I'm pretty sure the Bible addresses this within the book of Genesis as one of the detriments of The Fall, and it sucks for women.
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Women are so unique, and so helpful to us men.
If you're courting a mistress, do them a favor and walk away today. For good.
As their suitor, you are the biggest problem they face.
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