Undoubtedly, hands down, this is the most impactful parable that Jesus shared during his ministry on Earth. It's a story of family, and it perfectly syncs up with the outrageousness of the gospel. Jesus spent so much time teaching his followers that he'd come to fulfill the Law, therefore their penchant for obsessing over technicalities certainly now had no place in their lives. The parable of the prodigal son served as the zenith for obliterating the stronghold the Law still had over them.
When I was a teen, the challenge of the latest board game was how I spent the majority of my time with friends, and this was especially true around the holidays. Determining a winner within a board game is only possible whilst following the rules to the tee. Oftentimes, a minor technicality could turn the tide during the last few minutes of the game. All games are like this. That's why we have referees and officiating personnel who oversee the entire gaming process.
Later on in my life, I found myself caught up in travails that I was ashamed of, and it was then that those in authority over me used technicalities to punish me. And during that process, they took it upon themselves to demonize me as they reviewed what they understood of my life as it pertained to their expectations. Oh, how I longed for compassion at that point! But, it was simply not in their vocabulary.
If we could see forward into the narrative of the prodigal son, I believe we'd find a boy who continued to be somewhat intrinsically rebellious and haughty, even after his father's earlier display of extraordinary generosity and care. And similarly, the older brother likely continued to be a somewhat perturbed prick. Because of this truth relative to how people tend to continue forward within their fallen character, this is why we write people off / delete them from our lives in lieu of continuing forward in obligation to them. We simply find it easier to penalize them on a technicality, and in turn, punish them as they deserve.
Plus, it's rewarding in a sick and twisted kind of way, to watch people who are different than us suffer. Even if at times it's our own children.
But this is not how our Heavenly Father operates because he can do what we cannot. See our hearts. Our motivations. Where our allegiances truly lie. Plus, he takes the long view as the vineyard-keeper. Look at Luke 13: 6-9:
6 And He began telling this parable: “A man had a fig tree which had been planted in his vineyard; and he came looking for fruit on it and did not find any. 7 And he said to the vineyard-keeper, ‘Behold, for three years I have come looking for fruit on this fig tree [d]without finding any. Cut it down! Why does it even use up the ground?’ 8 And he answered and said to him, ‘Let it alone, sir, for this year too, until I dig around it and put in fertilizer; 9 and if it bears fruit next year, fine; but if not, cut it down.’”
In other words, he saying, here's my idle son. He's taking up a space, only to leech off of everyone else's resources. Nevertheless, I have hope for him still. It's the possibility of him coming around that far outweighs my disappointment in him today.
May we as Christians consider everyone around us as we've been considered by our Heavenly Father, and henceforth be reminded daily of the monumental grace that's been willingly bestowed on us. In essence, may we choose to take the long view with people, resisting the urge to demonize, doing so in return as we consider fully what we've been given, forever hopeful that we'll see those buds sprout forth within our neighbors, signaling the inevitable fruit of the spirit. (Galatians 5: 22-23)
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