Rank & File / Hierarchy Of Heardness

I've always been a complainer.  Maybe it's because I'm an only child.  I've just never been shy about letting my frustrations be heard.

Now, I do know when to call it quits relative to complaining.  In fact, that's usually fairly clear immediately following the reaction (positive / negative / neutral) to the initial complaint.  And also, I attempt to thoughtfully consider my complaints before I "release them" into the ears of those I'm not happy with / want something from because I know everyone "hates a complainer" and subsequently considers "those people" suspect.  

I could list memorable complaints here and divulge their outcomes (there are a boatload), but I won't bore you with that.  I will say though that having served as a representative to homeowners within our 'hood (homeowners' association) for many years, I know the importance that most everyone sees / considers in being heard.

And that's the whole point of complaining to begin with.  Wanting to be heard.

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So what is the most important lesson I've learned in all my years of complaining?

The very first question that's asked regarding the complaint(s) is the following:

Who's behind this, and just how much authority / influence (if any) do they have over me?

The reason everyone's so obsessed with politics most days is related back to this very question.  We as citizens typically believe profoundly that if / when "our party" is in power, our chances of being heard (complaints) will increase.  Let's call it political leverage.

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Now, let me also say that in line with my propensity to complain, I too am an encourager.  And to take that a step further, I work hard to encourage far more than complain.  Always.  Always.  Always.

So, what in the world does this have to do with Samson Society?

Complaining is welcome at Samson Society meetings.  In fact, if you'd like, you can complain to your heart's content during your share time.  And...(and this is the good part) you will be heard as a brother and friend no matter if you're a decorated military leader, lowly ditch digger or anything in between.

For as you likely know (& subsequently the reason most people choose to not complain), most complaints are never really heard despite one's attempts to relay them forward in a timely manner.  That is not the case within the Samson community.