Professional athletes (male) aren't just physically superior on the playing field. For coitus is a physical activity too. And alongside coitus is libido for which pro athletes typically have in spades.
I remember the occasion like it was yesterday.
My family had chosen to take a new friend's (our church's then Associate Pastor) children to a "Gatti Town" pizzeria for dinner / game night (the year was 2010). Whilst seated in the dining area, eating the restaurant's unimaginably greasy pizza, there playing on the wall television was none other than the following:
What's interesting to note is that this young man apparently loathed the fact that his own father (who'd been dead for four years when this press conference was taped) had a penchant for surrounding himself with whores. Earl Woods was very close to his son. So close, I believe, that he was his son's golf coach for much of his life. The harem of whores his father entertained were part of their traveling road show as Tiger played professional golf around the globe.
Strangely, like father, like son.
But the most shocking pro athlete sex disclosure (that I've heard) was this one:
Damn. That's disgusting. Talk about vagina masturbation...
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Earlier this evening, I screened 20-30 minutes of this video:
What struck me is how decent Ms. Swift's pro athlete boyfriend is. You can tell that he's made a decision to invest in knowing this very different human being really, really well despite their likes / dislikes / vocations / backgrounds. Another observation: Ms. Swift is no Amazon. Instead, she's no doubt a normal-scaled adult female (all around). As such, in contrast to her beau, you have to wonder how she's overcome the physical disproportion between her and her boyfriend. And speaking of her boyfriend...
He recently had a high profile photo shoot that exemplifies the fact that physically, he's in his prime.
If you know anything about the girl he's romantically attached to, she's introspective, extremely creative and the epitome of salt of the earth.
Yet, he's a physical powerhouse. Competitive, aggressive, forceful, masculine, jock, meathead, etc.
So, let's get down to the nitty gritty.
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If Ms. Swift's pro athlete boyfriend is to continue forward with this relational investment towards her (to the degree that he's sincerely displayed here), he's going to have to continue to wrangle his pro athlete size sex drive / high voltage allure 'till death do us part.
How is that possible?
I think first & foremost, he's got to choose to be satisfied in her holistically versus exclusively as a bed partner.
Ms. Swift has been very creatively public about her romantic history with men (her melodic compositions attest to this). In doing so, she's made it very clear that experiencing further (romantic) relational hurt is in no way a priority. As such, I have no doubt that her pro athlete beau has long since been privy to this (although I doubt he'd listened to much of her music prior to their first date).
Too, she's no longer a spring chicken. In other words, her eggs ain't getting any younger which is causing her biological clock to tick that much louder. Therefore, being upfront about her expectations / coupled with an intentionally slow descent into romance had to have been a huge priority for her. This is always a wise move, and she's obviously a wise (for her age) woman.
Of course, it's easy to see that he's just a big goofball. Fun-loving and kind. But that doesn't change the fact that he's a physical powerhouse. Competitive, aggressive, forceful, masculine, jock, meathead, etc.
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So, in conclusion, if they've had intercourse / any other form of sexual intimacy (& hopefully they haven't since they're unmarried) when did it occur and how often has it happened?
I'd speculate just recently and very, very little overall.
Why?
Sexual intimacy for nuanced women like Ms. Swift equates to an interweaving of deep seated emotions between her and her bedmate. As such, this is where the "rubber meets the road" so to speak relationally. Therefore, if the future holds a breakup, that decoupling will be exponentially more painful as a result of this emotionally validated genital connection.
(This is one obvious reason why the marriage bed is the VERY BEST place for sexual intimacy.)
All this being said, what about Ms. Swift's pro athlete beau's pro athlete-size libido / body / attention-seeking ambition? What's to be done with that?
This is what worries me. Especially considering the recent, high profile photo shoot.
Like so many pro athletes, Ms. Swift's beau undoubtedly feeds off of attention. And very recently, he's not been shy about appearing sexy and available in order to obtain it.
If he were my potential future son-in-law, I'd be asking, "What the hell were you thinking when you chose to allow those photos to be published?"
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