Weekly meetings available to you are as follows:

Tuesday at 6:30 PM, Truitt Baptist Church - Pearl. Call Matt Flint at (601) 260-8518 or email him at matthewflint.makes@gmail.com.

Wednesday at 6:00 PM, First Baptist Church Jackson - Summit Counseling Suite - 431 North State St. Jackson. Call Don Waller at 601-946-1290 or email him at don@wallerbros.com.

Monday at 6:30 PM , Vertical Church - 521 Gluckstadt Road Madison, MS 39110. Mr. Roane Hunter, facilitator, LifeWorks Counseling.

Wednesday at 7:00 PM, Crossgates Baptist Church. Brandon Reach out to Matthew Lehman at (601)-214-4077 for further info.

Sunday night at 6:00 PM, Grace Crossing Baptist Church - 598 Yandell Rd. Canton. Call Joe McCalman at 601-201-5608 or email him at cookandnoonie@gmail.com.


Friday, April 30, 2021

"Now That I'm Divorced, When's It Appropriate To Start Dating Again?"

It depends on two things.

One is if your offspring are / is out of the house completely.  If he or she / they're not, don't start dating.  You risk hurting them further with a new relationship that's statistically, very vulnerable to failure as well.

Now, if you've no offspring, the next question has to do with whether your heart is healed up enough from the divorce to "put itself out there" once again. 

How do you know if your heart is healed up enough?

Imagine your divorced spouse reaching out to you, asking for an audience.  How do you react to this?  Do you feign her return and in turn imagine this requested meeting being a segue into that sphere?  If so, your heart's absolutely not healed up enough to "put itself out there".  

A caveat to this is as follows:  Hearts take a long freaking time to heal.  Much longer than we'd like.  And also, no heart heals up completely from divorce.

Recommended Reading - Desiring God post

 Prophet, Priest, and King: The High Calling of Christian Husbands | Desiring God

Thursday, April 29, 2021

Recommended Viewing

 Barber Shaves Head in Solidarity With Coworker Diagnosed With Cancer (msn.com)

Recommended Reading - Sexually Transmitted Infections

Sexually Transmitted Infections: What to Know (msn.com)

I post this here in honor of a Samson man who was upfront enough with his brothers to divulge both his diagnosis and ongoing infectious disease treatment of a quite common sexually transmitted disease.

For what the article doesn't address is the emotional fallout that can ensue once the diagnosis is made.  Too, there's no mention of how the disease impacts one's marriage or future romantic relationships.  I had the privilege of seeing both as an eyewitness, and though it was heartbreaking to experience, it opened my eyes to truth that I'd no knowledge of prior.

Connections within the Samson community matter.  And I would argue much of their merit resides within the authentic narratives which unfold.  

I'm only had intercourse with one other human being (Angie), therefore I've no experience regarding a whole lot of complicated physical & emotional ramifications that many men face - who just happen to not have a sex life like my own. 

Someone needs to write a book of firsthand accounts related to contracting / managing "everyday" sexually transmitted diseases.

Recommended reading - The Gospel Coalition

 Alistair Begg: ‘Welcome to Exile. It’s Going to Be OK.’ (thegospelcoalition.org)