Showing posts with label Needs. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Needs. Show all posts
Monday, September 2, 2024

Recommended Reading / Rob's Cycle of Porn

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The Cycle of Pornography | Evidence Unseen My first encounter with porn (late elementary school) occurred at my uncle's apartment.  I wa...
Tuesday, January 16, 2024

Jesus January - Mid Month Update

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Back in December, we had an all-together lunch with some friends whose daughter and son are longstanding friends (former schoolmates) of our...
Tuesday, October 10, 2023

Hot Tub Time Machine / Reckoning With NOLA "Steve"

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Our family (Angie & I and our middle schooler) just returned from a long weekend relative to my 8th grade daughter's fall break (coa...
Wednesday, September 20, 2023

It's Endearing Providing Matrimonial Security (After All These 27 Years) Whilst Horizontal

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I mentioned (within a previous post) our recent sleep divorce.  This was something facilitated by our middle daughter (also) leaving for col...
Sunday, February 5, 2023

Thanks Silas 2.0 (& 1.0)!

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I learned firsthand from Silas 2.0 how critical it is for me to connect (relational accountability) with men who're like me but who also...
Friday, December 23, 2022

Unexpected Blessing (In Spite Of The Soreness)

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Earlier this week, I spent a few hours circuiting through a CrossFit workout in my Silas' garage (alongside the Man).  Now, this wasn...
Saturday, November 26, 2022

Pivotal Moments

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My current Silas had lunch with me (under the guise of two old friends catching up) back in April and it was timely.  In spite of me having ...
Friday, September 23, 2022

Insinuating The Ultimatum / Rerun relationship

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My first Silas relationship was one that cross pollinated (he and I served each other as Silases) despite the fact that we were not (yet - b...
Sunday, August 28, 2022

These Are Dangerous Times To Be Living Alone. Especially If You've Established A Perceived Anonymity Involving Both The Internet & Sexual Sin.

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I love meeting new Samson guys.  Hearing their stories and supporting them therein via my listening ear is what it's all about.  There...
Friday, July 29, 2022

Stand Up For Yourself. Samson Society Is A Selfish Pursuit. As You Mature In Your Recovery, Optimize Your Approach To Said Recovery.

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You are loyal to no one within Samson Society.  This is not a fraternity or a men's club.  Samson Society isn't a discipleship group...
Thursday, July 14, 2022

"What Are You Doing?"

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Angie walked in on me masturbating a few evenings ago.  I was in my usual spot in our bathroom, seated in front of the full-length mirror wh...
Saturday, June 4, 2022

My Need To Be Seen / Pursued By Men I Respect (& How Porn Defaults To Fulfill That Need)

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All of my issues with gay porn - for the most part - have a common denominator of attempting to fill a void of feeling   isolated  from the ...